What must young children learn from their parents? English? Swimming?
Raising children is a long and arduous journey, with essential lessons for each age stage. What Japanese parents insist their children master before age ten may surprise Hong Kong parents!
10 Essential Skills Japanese Children Must Master Before Age 10 (Public Health Network)
1.Making your loved ones happy is not your responsibility.
Happiness must be pursued through one's own efforts; it is not something bestowed by others. You should not force yourself to do things you dislike just to make your parents or siblings happy.
2. Play to your heart's content outdoors.
Many children today spend too much time indoors playing video games, which is detrimental to their physical and mental health. For their well-being, let them expend all their energy playing outside.
3.Take pride in what you love
Early childhood interests often shape future paths and achievements. Don't correct a boy who loves dolls or a girl who loves cars.
4. You don't always need your parents' approval
Disagreeing with parents or friends isn't bad. Developing independent views and freely expressing them is vital for children.
5.You are beautiful
Children frequently praised by parents for their intelligence and beauty are fortunate. Even if bullied outside, timely positive affirmation from parents can heal their wounds and restore their confidence.
6. Reading extensively is crucial
Developing a reading habit early benefits growth. Books read during sadness or joy become another version of oneself, imparting valuable experiences and knowledge.
7. You are you—no need to blindly follow others
Parents often assume children should be a certain way, but this approach actually controls them, robbing them of autonomy and damaging their self-esteem. Parents must first respect their child's opinions.
8. The problem lies with those who hurt you
Bullying and unfair treatment are inevitable in school and later in the workplace.If your child faces such situations, reassure them: "This isn't your fault—the fault lies with those who hurt you. Their own inner turmoil drives them to harm others."
9. No one can be your entire world
No matter how deeply in love or how much affection exists, humans have inherent limits. No one can ever be another person's "entire world."When you feel lonely or hurt, learn to accept this part of yourself and rise up with your own strength. 10. Mom and Dad Are Doing Their Best Parents fail sometimes; they may even scold or discipline their children. Even when parenting feels like a failure, let your child know that for them and for the family, Mom and Dad are giving it their all. <