1. The pinnacle of manhood isn't becoming a prince, but a knight or a general. Men belong not in fairy tales, but on the battlefield. 2. If you wasted most of your four years of college in internet cafes and romance, those years were squandered. As a man, you've failed.
3. A successful man needs a relatively accomplished woman by his side. This accomplishment has nothing to do with her looks, but everything to do with her inner substance.
4. Buddy, if you're not good at winning girls over, then go win over your own future instead. Men aren't here to conquer women—they're here to conquer the world.
5. If you dislike the study hall, skip it. Guys should hit the library more often—or just get out there and experience the real world.
6. Don't get hooked on online games; real life is too complex for that. Avoid smoking and drinking excessively, but learn the basics for future social engagements. Start practicing your table manners now.
7. If you can't offer her a bright future, don't seduce her into bed.
8. You'll shoulder many responsibilities in life, but four are paramount: to your parents, to your future, to your partner and your relationships, and to the world.
9. Don't toy with emotions, lest they toy with you one day. Find a stable relationship in college, because after graduation, your energy should be focused on your career.
10. Birds of a feather flock together—this saying fits men perfectly. Befriend ambitious people and those with refined tastes; you'll gain immensely.
11. Learn to endure—it's often more valuable than assertiveness. When you've grown strong enough, repay those who hurt your dignity tenfold.
12. In college, resolve grudges promptly whenever possible. After graduation, connections become your greatest asset.
13. Romance isn't a required course in college—it's an elective. You can skip it, because a man's true charm lies in his maturity.
14. Unless you were born into royalty or wealth, don't judge a girlfriend solely by her looks. Learn to appreciate her inner qualities.You seek a life partner, not a lover—a wife.
15. By the first semester of sophomore year, begin mapping out your next decade. Integrate your future partner into this plan. A woman’s sense of security stems not from your strength, but from your ability to design a beautiful, tailored future for her.
16. A man without dreams is more frightening than a woman without dreams.Therefore, define your life's purpose, solidify your dreams, and quantify them. Strive silently for the future!
17. The notion that men become exceptional through loneliness is flawed. An exceptional man should carve out more time for solitude. This facilitates deep thought—avoid becoming enamored with the camaraderie of group gatherings. When men congregate, conversations seldom rise above the mundane.
18. Men must be ruthless with themselves.Be a knight, always ready to charge forward. But your ultimate goal should be to become a general one day.
19. In college, there are many girls, but few women. The difference between a girl and a woman isn't about how sexy or alluring she is, but whether she possesses sound principles and values.
20. In this world, the people most worthy of your love, besides your parents, are your woman and your brothers—and only then yourself.