Seventeen Commandments for Year-End Gifting
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Introduction: At work or in companies, especially for juniors or those with less seniority, receiving guidance and mentorship from superiors sometimes warrants expressing gratitude through gifts. As the saying goes, "Among three people walking together, there must be one who can be my teacher," and "Once a teacher, always a father." Showing appreciation is only fitting.Items that cater to personal tastes should never be chosen as gifts.
2. Avoid hidden motives. Steer clear of gifts with suggestive or double meanings.
3. Always opt for new items. No one appreciates receiving secondhand goods.
4. Don't buy "useful" gifts. This advice is especially for men who only know how to buy household items for their loved ones.Practical gifts lack imagination and thoughtfulness. Remember you're gifting to an individual, not the household. 5. Remove price tags regardless of value—whether your gift costs $3 or $300. Leaving tags visible reminds the recipient of the monetary cost. Are you expecting reciprocation? Or seeking an equal exchange, a fair deal?Generally, leaving price tags on gifts is considered impolite. For someone trying to express their feelings, it's also unwise.
6. Choose packaging carefully. Gifts differ from personal items—while the contents matter, attractive presentation enhances the gesture. The principle is to select the most beautiful packaging possible.
7. Relatively speaking, gifting women is simpler. The myriad small items in a woman's life make excellent gift choices.Their innate daughterhood, wifely nature, and motherhood can all be skillfully catered to through gift selection.
8. Despite this, clothing remains an unwise choice for women. Beyond the challenge of matching their ever-changing preferences in color and style, the critical hurdle is sizing—too small is troublesome, too large risks offending: "Do I look that fat?"
9. Timing is crucial.Gift-giving opportunities abound. While we can only give someone a birthday present once a year, nothing prevents us from offering "non-birthday" gifts at other times. For ages, these gifts have served to strengthen bonds, soothe wounded hearts, and mend broken friendships.
10. Love the gift you give. If you yourself dislike a gift, you shouldn't give it to someone else.
11. Get creative. Gifting someone who seems uninterested in everything or already has everything is the most challenging task. Think outside the box—invite them to an exceptionally captivating performance.
12. Choose practical gifts based on the recipient's profession.
13. Gauge reasonable value. A gift shouldn't be so cheap it feels disrespectful. Its worth should reflect your relationship with the recipient to avoid awkwardness for both parties.
14. Personalized gifts. Handmade presents are one-of-a-kind and convey your thoughtful consideration.
15. It's said ties and belts are inappropriate gifts for men unless you share an intimate relationship, as they symbolize binding the recipient. Similarly, necklaces may seem ill-suited for women, let alone rings.
16. Strike a balance between practicality and novelty in gift-giving. For refined scholars, a volume of books may surpass any other gift—though such connoisseurs grow scarce. Still, gifts should remain gifts; excessive practicality is unwelcome.
17. Avoid perishable goods. Even when gifting to a homemaker who loves cooking, it's best to steer clear of poultry, fish, meat, or vegetables. Aside from preservation challenges, their ready-to-cook or ready-to-eat nature diminishes their significance as gifts. When giving nutritional supplements, food items, or cosmetics, pay close attention to expiration dates to avoid awkward situations.
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