A woman's male confidant, however, carries an ambiguous undertone. While termed pure, it absolutely cannot be so pure as to involve no physical contact whatsoever.
Today's women embrace a popular form of affection called "confidant love," also known as the third type of emotion. It's described as a pure bond—neither lover nor friend—devoid of physical intimacy, yet surpassing relationships that do involve it. "Confidant" can be a general term, applicable to both same-sex and opposite-sex relationships.
Yet a woman's male confidant carries an ambiguous undertone.
While termed pure, it's never so pure as to lack any physical contact.
They may never have had sex, but they've certainly touched fingers.It is precisely this initial physical connection that breeds the ambiguous emotions between them. Even if they've never met in person, they've undoubtedly poured out their hearts over the phone or through messages, sharing their deepest stories.
The essence of a soulmate is allowing the other to know you completely.
A blue-collar soulmate is a man positioned below husbands and boyfriends, yet above other male friends.
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A woman can confide in this man about anything she cannot share with her husband or boyfriend. She can pour out her grievances about the wrongs done by her partner. Because he is her soulmate, he will cherish her, advocate for her perspective, and offer a warm embrace when she is hurt—a hug devoid of any hint of desire.
A blue-blooded confidant is a man who truly understands a woman's psychology and emotions. He won't constantly fret over her every mood swing, yet when they meet, he'll ache for every tear she sheds and rejoice at every smile she gives. He's the first person she thinks of when she's hurt or wronged.
Women often have things they can't share with the men in their lives or even their closest female friends. So they seek a man who cares for and cherishes them without causing them pain—a man they don't have to love, hate, or agonize over.
A blue-blooded confidant—one might disguise it as brotherhood or sisterhood. It's a relationship where neither sees the other as a woman or a man. Yet the more they insist on this, the more they fear taking that step.
Confidantship is a dangerous relationship. One misstep forward, and you've stumbled into infidelity.
A man's sole purpose in treating a woman well is either to win her heart or to possess her body. Nothing more.