Most men view kissing as mere foreplay, scheming how to rush through it. But this impatience turns off most women! While everyone defines "long enough" differently, women generally feel men don't give enough time to kissing.Men overlook that women's sexual desire still stems from love. They need emotional connection to be aroused. Perhaps in the moment of kissing, a woman's mind conjures images like those on romantic movie posters. She immerses herself in the joy of love, feeling cherished and cared for.Meanwhile, men might have a blank mind or are already thinking about moving those hot lips down!
A survey of women revealed that whether it's a French-style deep kiss or a series of quick pecks, their most unforgettable sexual experiences involve men who take the time and effort to kiss their partners.Want to be the one calling the shots in bed? Then put in the work on kissing. Don't let your partner think you're only interested in getting down to business, or things will quickly become dull and uninteresting.But what kind of kissing hits the sweet spot, making a woman eager to shed her clothes with you? That's hard to say. What's certain, though, is that several kissing approaches are universally disliked by most women. To avoid ruining the potential for great bedroom action later, take note:
The "Sealed Lips" Type
These men are probably more "virgin" than virgins themselves, keeping their lips tightly shut during kisses.What's the deal? Do you have bad breath, or are you afraid of losing control? This kissing style makes women feel tense and kills any romantic mood! It might even make her think you're just going through the motions. You should slightly part your lips and lift them ever so slightly, giving your partner a gentle sensation when kissing!
The Tongue Probe Type
This "tongue-probing" kissing style often stems from men mistakenly believing it's a virtue. They arrogantly assume wildly thrusting their tongue will arouse their partner. In reality, deep kissing requires serious skill!Neither of us is some seasoned lover, so don't treat your one partner as a practice dummy—that's pure torture!
Drooling Overload Type
Do you enjoy the drool tactic? Watch out—too much saliva might drown your partner!While a bit of that warm, wet sensation can be nice sometimes, you might both need a shower after the battle! If that happens, a romantic dip together sounds lovely—just be mindful of your partner's comfort, especially when kissing near the ear. Watch out for drool dripping in.
The Hard-Kissing Type
Do you think kissing hard means you're passionate? Rubbing your teeth against their lips, accidentally leaving vampire-like bite marks on their neck—that's terrifying! How would you face anyone the next day? You're making love, not attacking someone—be gentle! Unless your partner is deeply into BDSM, that is.
A woman's tongue is incredibly sensitive. Other erogenous zones include behind the ears, the neck, the inner forearms, and even the inner knees. Sometimes, a light lick with your tongue or a gentle breath of warm air on these sensitive spots is all it takes to ignite her passion!