When with their partners, women often feel shy and vulnerable, especially after intimacy. Careless men, be warned: these four behaviors could cost you future opportunities for intimacy.
1. Never compare her performance in bed to other women's.
The worst thing you can do after sex is compare her performance to that of his exes. Merely mentioning his former girlfriends can turn a level-headed woman into a nervous wreck—let alone discussing bedroom matters!If he does this, make sure he loses not only his chance with you, but with anyone else too!
2. Don't announce you just had sex on social media
There you are, wrapped in the sheets, nothing underneath, looking gorgeous as you sleep in his bed. And all he can think is—hey, why not snap a pic for social media!Don't forget to caption it: "Just finished with my super hot girlfriend, haha!" so every mutual follower on Weibo knows he really did sleep with you.
3. Don't critique her performance after sex
He's just finished his "workout," and before you even ask about "round two," he sighs deeply and blurts out:I'd give that sex a 5 out of 5." Okay, if you can tolerate that, you won't be able to say no when he wants to try BDSM next time—seriously!
4. Don't scare her off with your weird fetishes
Maybe you like sharing the bed with her teddy bear that has a delicate little hole between its legs, or maybe you secretly fantasize about having sex with a Japanese anime character.This is your chance to share her quirks with someone else! We fully support sharing these kinks with someone who resonates with them, but if she's not into this stuff, get it out of sight fast!
Guys, remember—avoid these four mistakes in bed!