Men always have their little tricks. Even after a one-night stand outside the marriage, when confronted by their wives, they'll make excuses left and right, refusing to admit infidelity. Why is this in a man's psychology?
1. Because she doesn't know.
Think about it: if you killed someone without leaving a trace, would you walk up to the police and taunt them, "Come on, guess what I did!"?" The fact is, it happened just this once, and you won't have any further dealings with that woman.
Since you can draw a clean line, there's no need to let your girlfriend know. Not only should she remain unaware of your one-time "lapse," but you must also prevent her from suspecting anything—because she knows nothing about it unless you blab your own mouth off.The logic of "ignorance is bliss" is that keeping her in the dark won't hurt her. Of course, if she finds out, you'll see what happens to you. 2. Because she already feels guilty toward you. Someone once asked this question: "When you're out having fun, who's taking care of your wife?"It sounds intriguing, but it also hints that you might not be the only one straying. How can you be sure she hasn't done something to betray you?
By the time you decide to confess your "crimes," she might already be frantically covering up her own "misdeeds." Allow me to be a bit more cynical: she might have cheated too—and perhaps even with someone close to home.Don't believe me? One day you'll discover that the so-called colleague she has lunch with daily isn't just there for meals.
3. Because she will retaliate.
Once your actions are exposed to her, she won't settle for just smashing a few plates. The saying "Only the petty and women are hard to please" has endured for a reason. Don't mistake her for a fool—she knows every absurd thing you've done behind her back.
She will keep in touch with your friends, family, colleagues... essentially everyone in your social circle. Soon you'll find rumors and slander about you spreading like wildfire among them.
She will maintain connections with your friends, family, coworkers... essentially everyone in your social circle. Soon you'll discover that gossip and slander about you will spread like wildfire among them.
She will keep in touch with your friends, family, colleagues... essentially everyone in your social circle. Soon you'll find rumors and slander about you spreading like wildfire among them.
She will maintain connections with your friends, family, coworkers... essentially everyone in your social circle. Soon you'll discover that gossip an
She'll stay in touch with your friends, family, coworkers... basically everyone in your social circle. Soon enough, rumors and gossip about you will spread like wildfire among them. This is her revenge, and its impact won't just affect your current life—it could even ruin your future romantic prospects.
Four: Because she'll break up with you.
She'll walk away—perhaps the most immediate consequence of your confession.
She'll have no choice but to pack her bags and leave. She'll take everything: mutual friends, shared possessions, the meaningful life you built for her sake—even the dog. So, would you rather blame yourself forever or lose her forever?
5. Because you care about her.
While cheating is wrong, one could cynically argue it proves she's still your greatest love. That sounds infuriating, but consider this: if you didn't care, would that "one-night stand" have happened at all?
If you no longer loved her, would you be tormented by such excruciating guilt?Infidelity is bad enough—don't compound it by hurting her with your "honesty." The only way to make amends is to treat her better than you did before the affair, so she truly feels your deep love.
6. Because it's too selfish.
Telling her about your affair benefits only you. Isn't that right? You cheat, get your release, climax, then feel conflicted and guilty—so you confess to her. You're relieved, she's tormented.
How does it look like you're the one reaping all the benefits? Why not just shove the used condom in her face and say, "Look! I practice safe sex—even with strangers!"? So understand that every move you make isn't just about you. Think about how she feels!