Don't fall for the new handsome guy. Even if his big eyes and curly hair make you weak in the knees, don't smear on lipstick or douse yourself in perfume for him. Don't use excuses like teaching him how to print or jotting down his number to stick to him like glue. Within two weeks, you'll realize he's a playboy and regret it, only to find the whole company already knows you're a hopeless flirt.Years of building a gentle, reserved reputation will be destroyed in an instant—it's not worth it. Never fall for your boss. No matter how handsome, how soft his voice, how magnetic his lips, or how sensual he is—don't let him capture your eyes or your heart. Especially when you know full well he's off the market, married to a devoted wife with a perfect family.Don't love him, don't even think about him. Don't let his kindness and attentiveness make you hang on. He can't give you a future, and you can't promise him one. Loving him will only hurt you for nothing and mess up your promising career. Even the hero in A Chinese Odyssey would say: Why bother?Why bother?
Don't fall for your subordinates either. Fresh graduates are still brimming with youthful passion, untamed by university life—let them burn it off. But you? After five years of hard work to become a department manager, countless eyes are on your position. How could you let yourself get swept away by those innocent, boyish eyes in a moment of weakness?Don't fall for him, lest you end up swallowing your pride, watching him walk away while a newcomer approaches, smiling as they replace you.
Don't fall for ordinary colleagues either.When romance blossoms within the same company, convention dictates the happiest ending is one where someone must move elsewhere to pursue their career. Unless you're determined to wage a guerrilla war of clandestine love, unless you both agree to keep it casual—just seeking warmth in each other's arms—such fleeting affairs are no more enduring than the flowers on your desk. Won't they be tossed into the trash after a mere afternoon?
The workplace and the dating scene are fundamentally different realms. Don't believe in love at the office. Don't blindly fall for someone else. Love yourself first. Prioritize your own needs. Get your responsibilities and duties straight. Then make full use of the time outside those eight hours. Love is a battle. You may give your heart and your body, but please keep your job intact until the very end.
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