Do you know what "Three-Average Women" are? The term "Three-Average" refers to women who are ordinary, average, and stable. While they may seem to have high standards for partners, what do they truly desire? Today, we'll explore the genuine thoughts of these "Three-Average Women."
1. Height must be 175cm or above
Many readers state, "I don't really care much about a man's height—around 175cm is fine." Why exactly "175cm" became this benchmark remains unclear, but the average height for Japanese adult men is 171cm!Isn't 175cm significantly above average?
When considering preferences, many women initially think, "Around 175cm is pretty good~". But if these women claim to be "average women" who don't expect partners to be outstanding, why insist on 175cm? It's hard to comment.Given this, if so many women demand "men over 175cm," they should be prepared to exclude over half of eligible men from their pool.
2. Educational requirements: MARCH (Meiji University, Aoyama Gakuin University, Rikkyo University, Chuo University, Hosei University) or higher
Women who calmly state, "I may not meet that standard myself, but I expect my partner to have at least a MARCH-level education," leave one speechless.And then they add, "Actually, I'm not that picky about education—just an average, ordinary person is fine." To make such a statement without even properly evaluating oneself is truly disillusioning.
If you hold a MARCH degree, it's common for your friends to have similar credentials. But realistically, the probability of knowing friends with vastly different educational backgrounds is low. Setting unrealistic educational standards based on this reality makes it natural for others to call you demanding.While it's true that expressing ideals is a freedom, one should calmly consider what the social average looks like and what their own circumstances are.
3. The partner must work for a publicly listed company.
Many people harbor the thought, "It's rare to find a woman who can clearly articulate her reasons, so I just feel like 'a partner working for a publicly listed company would be nice.'" Therefore, if you think, "My ideals aren't that lofty," you're in trouble.Do they even know how many non-listed companies exist?
This mirrors the previous point: if you work at a listed company, office romances naturally involve fellow listed-company employees. But demanding a listed-company job isn't average. If you keep saying "I don't have high standards" or "I just want an ordinary partner," start by learning basic social norms.
4. Disliking boring conversationalists
Women who say "I dislike boring people" might be missing the point. Assuming all men can effortlessly entertain women with witty banter is a huge mistake. Sparking engaging conversation requires effort from both sides.
To initiate meaningful dialogue, passively receiving isn't enough.Not only as the speaker, but even as the listener, you need to put in effort. If you maintain an attitude of expecting others to entertain you without lifting a finger, achieving that engaging conversation will be tough.
Men often feel "once they realize these women are fake 'no-talk, no-emotion, no-opinion' types, they get incredibly disappointed and angry." So be wary of women who don't speak honestly but constantly promote themselves as the 'no-talk, no-emotion, no-opinion' type.