Domestic violence perpetrators remain numerous.
Due to the sensitive nature of abuse, many victims still believe "family matters shouldn't be aired publicly" or face threats from abusers—promises like "reporting this will get you beaten" or "harm to your family." For these reasons, much domestic violence remains hidden, unseen by society, while victims endure ongoing suffering.
Do women commit domestic violence?
Yes, women do!
Some women justify violence against men with excuses like: "As a man, you should unconditionally yield to me and fulfill all my demands. If I hit you, you should endure it." Or: "Is this how a man behaves?" Women's violence extends beyond physical acts—verbal attacks and psychological abuse also constitute domestic violence.
Is Domestic Violence More Common Among Women or Men?
Generally, male perpetrators are perceived as more prevalent.
Men typically possess greater physical strength and often dominate in relationships, while women are generally considered more temperate or emotionally intelligent. Yet we frequently encounter "tiger moms" or women known for their fierce temper.
Why does domestic violence occur?
1. Inherent personality flaws, poor emotional self-control, or even antisocial personality traits.
2. Inferiority complex. Individuals with low self-esteem may resort to violence to compensate for their lack of confidence.
3. Suspicion. Lack of trust in the partner, constantly worrying about betrayal, and using violence to vent emotions.
4. The wife's fault. If the husband has always suspected his wife of not being a virgin, or if the wife has committed infidelity, the husband may resort to violence.
5. The wife's misconduct. If the wife has committed infidelity, the husband may resort to violence to punish her.
3. Suspicion. Lacking trust in their partner, they constantly fear betrayal and vent their emotions through violence.
4. Spousal transgressions. If a husband harbors resentment over his wife not being a virgin or over infidelity, he may express his dissatisfaction through domestic violence.