First, you need to calm your emotions. I know this is difficult—you may feel betrayed by the entire world. But I know you are strong and capable of handling this situation. After all, dwelling in sorrow won't solve anything. Stabilize yourself first, then consider solutions. Attempting Reconciliation If you wish to preserve this marriage, your first step is to reach out to your husband.Don't dwell on negative thoughts or fear he'll abandon you. Reach out proactively to see if circumstances forced his departure. Don't assume fault lies with you. During communication, maintain dignity—avoid appearing desperate or pleading. Instead, insist he return to address the domestic violence issue.
Seek Police Assistance
Can't locate him?No worries. In modern China, even if he's hiding deep in the mountains, our public security system can locate and bring him back. If your husband has been missing for over 48 hours, it's the perfect time to file a police report. The authorities can also assist in addressing the domestic violence issue.
Family intervention
You can reach out to his relatives and friends. In today's world, it's nearly impossible for someone to truly vanish without a trace. Could his family be hiding him?Leverage family connections to address the domestic violence issue.
Litigation Divorce
Regardless of whether he flees, if divorce is inevitable, proceed directly to court and follow legal procedures. The court will issue a summons—who can evade legal consequences?