When it comes to children's education, every parent has a lot to say. Some parents complain that their kids get annoyed whenever they try to reason with them, dismissing it as "the same old stuff, here we go again." Not saying anything isn't an option, but saying it just annoys them—it's truly a dilemma. In reality, with dedication and creativity, educating children can be an enjoyable experience.
A friend of mine has an adorable little boy. Once the child developed basic reading skills, he began writing him little notes with different messages—sometimes just a few words. He'd slip these notes into the boy's pencil case, sneak them into his toy box, or even place them on the fridge door, desk, or pillow—anywhere the child might spot them.He hoped that when the child unexpectedly discovered these notes, it would bring him a moment of surprise and let him genuinely feel his parents' care and affection.
It's clear this is a very thoughtful father who has put considerable thought into his child's education.First, he tapped into the child's strong curiosity. When encountering something unfamiliar, the child would inevitably ponder it for a while. Upon discovering the note, the child would be eager to know what it said. Thus, when the child could read the message, they would feel delighted, making it easier to focus and leaving a deeper impression.
Second, words and sounds possess distinct characteristics. Sounds are fleeting, often entering one ear and exiting the other, whereas written words overcome this weakness.Notes to children can serve both to praise and encourage them, or to offer constructive criticism. Reasoned, measured written words are generally more readily accepted by children than stormy verbal reprimands.
Finally, this practice also challenges parents. Not only does it deepen children's understanding and respect for their parents, but persisting with it may even push you to grow alongside your child.As children grow older, the content of these notes will expand beyond simple praise or criticism. They can gradually include book recommendations, introductions to insightful articles, puzzles requiring thought, or even discussions of certain viewpoints. This places higher demands on parents. When children are a bit older, they will likely learn to write something for their parents too, joining in this game. This is also an excellent way to train their thinking and writing skills.This back-and-forth exchange can inject considerable fun into family education.