With the broadcast of "Where's Dad 3", the high-cool boss Kang overnight burst into flames, Kang does not rely on the face value, just with a manly man in front of the TV set of mums will be touched. Seeing such a domineering Kang Kang, parents who have sons at home have already been moved, also want to make their children into a little man. But what do mums and dads need to pay attention to in order to raise a man?

　　Three qualities of a manly Kangkang that make mums and dads sing his praises

　　The name "manly man" is a kind of recognition. Maybe a man doesn't have to be strong or have a strong character, but he must have qualities and sexiness that are worthy of people's recognition. In the programme, viewers can clearly feel three qualities of Kangkang that have a sparkling point in him.

　　Knowledgeable and mature, not noisy

　　In the programme, Kang Kang's performance has always been very generous, never pampering to adults, playing games and losing will not cry and quarrel, and with other children, automated body big brother to take care of them.

　　Especially in the next episode of the Yunnan trip, the programme team asked two dads to leave the children temporarily, he did not want to let go of his father in his heart, but he still said he hoped that his father would leave because the other children were too young or unwilling to leave their dads, which shows that he understands and is patient.

　　Always helping others silently

　　Kang Kang often in the case of adults have not responded to the situation, to help the village chief silently clean up the props; in the rubbing corn competition, he silently for the injured players to pass the band-aid; and Nuoyi to complete the task, lively Nuoyi forget the task, Kang Kang did not complain, silently to the results of his ...... may not be inside the most pleasing-looking children, but it is the most heartwarming children. But it is the most heart-warming child.

　　Bravely overcoming difficulties

　　Kang Kang seldom shows fear in the programme, although in the latest episode, he was scared by the elephants and cried uncontrollably, but he is still 6 years old. Kang Kang is still very brave in the programme, for example, Hu Jun said that he doesn't like to ask for things from others, but in the task of needing to find food, he still asks for food from his aunt and uncle himself. When he encountered difficulties, viewers saw Kang trying more often.

　　How can mums and dads nurture the growth of a man?

　　Watching the brave man Kangkang, parents in front of the TV set are envious and hope that their boys will also become men with excellent qualities such as bravery, kindness and understanding. So, how are men moulded and how do parents guide their children as they grow up?

　　Positive parental values make children responsible

　　Manhood requires good moral qualities, and it is difficult to get children to be civilised and well-mannered by parents alone. Children like to imitate the behaviour of their nearest and dearest, and it is easy for them to judge right and wrong based on their behaviour. Therefore, parents' mentality and awareness, words and behaviour have a far-reaching influence on their children. Kang Kang's warm-heartedness and kindness can also be seen in Hu Jun. In the programme, the owner of a cold noodle shop gave Hu Jun two bowls of noodles, and Hu Jun immediately took it upon himself to solicit business for the shop owner in return for a favour.

　　It can be seen that the values of parents, in the growth of children, has a very great influence. On the contrary, if in front of their children, parents do not abide by traffic rules and do not give a helping hand to those who need help, then the children will doubt whether the moral education they receive is correct because of these behaviours.

　　Masculine fatherhood makes boys more manly

　　Some psychologists have proved that the more contact boys have with their fathers and the more time they spend together, the braver, stronger, more open-minded and more optimistic they become. Seeing this, the mother is a bit unconvinced, is the mother's education not good enough?

　　In fact, both father's love and mother's love are indispensable to a child's growth process. However, when a mother brings up a child, she rarely plays with the child and prefers to get along with the child in a quiet way. Boys who always get along with their mothers are prone to develop a female-like, docile character and lack the independence and determination of males.

　　But boys more with the father, it is easy to play a piece, and compared to the mother, the father of the child less indulgent, more strict, when educating the child, will deliberately cultivate the child's character of independence and strength.

　　Let go of your child to give him more space to grow up independently.

　　In the programme, we saw that Kang Kang is very good at completing his own tasks independently, and Hu Jun always holds trust in him and rarely intervenes. What parents need to do more than anything else in their children's growing process is not to replace their children's growth, but to help them grow. When they are dealing with their own affairs, such as some simple life skills, relationship with friends, etc., parents try to meddle as little as possible, so that children have more space to grow independently.

　　On the contrary, if parents always feel that their children are not doing well and help with their hands. Then the child may not be able to learn and become dependent and lack of self-confidence. Parents should encourage and guide their children rather than help them solve problems directly.

　　Misunderstandings in the way manhood is taught

　　Manly education is not simple, parents have to put more effort to pay attention to their children's growth, and be more patient to guide their children's growth. Moreover, due to the different age, character traits, and growing environment of each child, manhood is not something that can be done according to the book, and parents are prone to the following three misunderstandings about the way to educate men in the process of this education:

　　Misunderstanding 1: The earlier the manhood training, the better.

　　Chinese people often say "three years old", think the child's character since childhood. But this view of the problem is too one-sided, the child's character and cognition will be with the physical and psychological growth and change constantly. In the show "Dad 3", Kang Kang's behaviour and way of thinking are very different from the other boys, because after the age of 6, children start to use their left brain to learn more, and their demands on themselves will be higher than in the past, and most of the boys will not have the desire to become "men" until after the age of 6.

　　So parents, don't be in a hurry if your child doesn't listen to your reasoning and doesn't feel like a man before the age of 6.

　　Misunderstanding 2: Boys must be emotionally stronger than girls

　　Some parents think that "boys are poor, girls are rich". This means that boys should be more honed, and parents will be more strict with boys in their education. So parents may be more inclined to express love in front of the girl, for boys, love in the heart less open.

　　In fact, children's hearts are fragile, because the self-knowledge has not yet been fully established, in the process of growing up is prone to inferiority complex, the love they feel in their parents is conducive to the establishment of their self-esteem and self-confidence. So mums and dads, the growth of manhood should also be supported by love, and remember to express more love from your heart to your children!

　　Misunderstanding 3: Children should experience more setbacks

　　Encountering setbacks and overcoming difficulties is a necessary part of manhood. As frustration education is inevitable in the process of children's growth. Inevitably, some of the anxious parents have some ideas: artificially let the child face more frustration of.

　　But artificially create a false environment for the child, easy to appear deliberate, the meaning of frustration discount, the child thinking in the "why will meet the frustration", "how to avoid frustration" these issues are prone to confusion. It is worth noting that too many setbacks may give children a sense of inferiority and make them fall into a pessimistic mood.