Attention parents: Don't step on the three major parenting mistakes (Popular Health)

　　Being a great reader and experienced in life and work doesn't mean you can be great at bringing up children. Because, bringing up a child is very delicate and requires time, energy and patience. Raising a big child requires real effort, and if you don't have a good understanding of common sense parenting, then you may inevitably encounter various setbacks in the process of raising a child.

　　I. Common misconceptions about parenting

　　1. Misconception 1: excessive attention to care for children

　　Nowadays, many parents are overly concerned about their children and the phenomenon of concern and care, although, this is out of parental love for children, concern and care for children's growth is correct. However, once excessive care and concern, it is not necessarily beneficial to the child's mental health development. The child may not agree with the parent's excessive concern, but will have aversion to the psychological generation, and parents for the child excessive attention, care for their own not only will lose a lot of time, a waste of energy, and is not conducive to the child's free growth.

　　2.Misunderstanding two: children are not allowed to cry

　　Some parents will stop their children when they hear the child crying, or use some means to stop the child crying, may be the way of cajoling, may be the way of violence, but, no matter what kind of practice, are not conducive to the child's growth and education. Children crying in infancy and early childhood is very normal, parents can not completely do not allow the child to cry, then the child is easy to suffocate, the grievances and unhappiness in the stomach can not be vented, may lead to the child's illness. In addition, in the case of children's immature language ability, sometimes crying is just to show everyone their needs, and not an unreasonable practice, so parents should also understand the reasons first.

　　3. Myth 3: The child comes first

　　In some families, since the birth of the child, everyone puts the child first, who are all around the child all day long, the child's happy or unhappy dominated the adult mood changes, but this is not appropriate. On the one hand, the child in the first place, the child will be raised from a young age, may later develop the character of no one else; on the other hand, what all to the child as the first, will aggravate the family conflicts and disputes, but also directly affect the relationship between husband and wife.

　　Second, childcare precautions

　　There are many aspects of parenting precautions, but it is very simple to summarise. First of all, parents should learn to understand, including understanding the child's changing situation and the reasons for the child's changes, only timely grasp of the child's physical, psychological and emotional changes, in order to better take care of the child. Secondly, parents should know how to respect their children, tolerate their children, don't force their children and don't demand high standards from them. Finally, it is important to accompany your child, which is very beneficial to your child's psychological and physical growth.