Parents want their children smart and lovely, in order to make the child's intellectual development can be said to be racking their brains, as long as it is possible to make the child healthy and smart things to do, in fact, want to raise a smart child is not so difficult. But it turns out that some inappropriate educational methods are not only not conducive to the development of the child's intelligence, and will make the child become stupid Oh! Parents come to understand what practices will make the child become stupid, in our daily life we should pay attention to what matters.

　　The parents do these things will make the child become stupid you do a few pieces (public health network)

　　1, too early knowledge transfer

　　Some parents who are keen on "intellectual development" actively or even harshly train their young children in reading, writing and arithmetic. Some parents even arrange a good course for their children, systematic learning painting, writing, piano, these specialties, too heavy arrangements so that children not only lack the freedom to play a happy childhood, but also to bear the parents of their own high expectations of the pressure. Parents do not know that these academic knowledge is not in line with the cognitive laws of young children, although the child can rely on instantaneous memory or parrot the way rote memorisation, but may not understand, if the child is not interested in their own words, their intellectual development does not have much of a role in promoting, but rather bring great pressure to the child, may lose the original interest.

　　"Interest is the best teacher" has become a cliché, but it is still ignored by many parents. If we want our children to become smarter and smarter and to learn more and more, then we need to stimulate and increase their interest in learning activities as a priority.

　　2, can never win the game

　　Parents like to play parent-child games with their children, we should choose some easy to understand the child's game, a simple explanation or demonstration of the child knows how to do, so that the child can experience the fun of the game and the joy of success. Imagine if you play the game beyond the child's ability to understand, parents do not explain the words, the child may lose to the parents many times, not only can not feel the pleasure of the game, from the child's point of view, the experience of this failure will make the child feel stupid, it is supposed to feel the fun of the game, there is no need to let the child "the more frustrated, the more courageous! The game is supposed to be fun, so there is no need to make children "more frustrated and more courageous".

　　Parents do not have to worry about the child will become "can not afford to lose", in fact, we can in our daily lives, more to encourage children to boldly try, the courage to challenge, for example, you can guide the child to participate in more chores, you can let the child to participate in cleaning up the room and the toys, and mum and dad competition to see who can clean up the room cleanly and neatly, so that the child through their own efforts to experience the joy of victory. Let your child experience the joy of victory through his or her own efforts.

　　3、Lots of negative hints

　　There is a very moral fairy tale: there is a beautiful princess, since childhood was a vicious witch locked in a tower above, every day can only see the witch. The witch told her every day, "You are so ugly that anyone who sees you will run away in fear." The princess believed the witch's falsehoods and was afraid to run away for fear of being laughed at. Then one day a prince passed by the tower, saw the beautiful princess, marvelled and rescued her. This princess couldn't believe seeing herself in the mirror turned out to be really so beautiful.

　　As a matter of fact, many parents may inadvertently act as "witches". Parents may be too modest in front of their relatives and friends and say some negative words, or often compare them with their excellent children and say things that make their children discouraged, which may gradually affect their children and "mark" them, making them feel that they are the same as their parents. These may gradually affect the child, "branded" the child, feel that they are the kind of children mum and dad said, and even produce "suggestive effect" of the adverse consequences. Imagine how a child can be "nurtured" by such a large number of negative hints all day long, and how he or she will not be completely and hopelessly convinced that he or she is really very stupid.

　　Summing up: Many parents tend to focus on what knowledge and skills their children have learned in a short period of time, or recreate their children's future in the name of love. In fact, we should pay more attention to the child's behavioural habits, hobbies, imaginative thinking, and the development of emotional intelligence and social interaction, which are important qualities and decisive forces in determining the success of a smart and excellent child. So we should tend to avoid harm, more encouragement and appreciation of their own children, appropriate time and amount of participation in games and learning activities, so that children think hard, more brain, I believe our children will become more and more intelligent.