Almost all of my girlfriends have had miscarriages. I am afraid of pain, so when I was unmarried, I often asked them how they felt about abortion. What I heard was a common refrain: "You can taste anything in life, but don't taste abortion." And as an experienced person, I warned, "If you don't want to have children for a while after you get married, you must take proper contraceptive measures."
I got married this year. My husband and I are not financially well off, so we planned to have children in a few years. I always ask my husband to wear a condom when we have sex.