Love, in different times has different definitions. The modern definition is the strongest, most stable and most exclusive feelings between two people who, based on certain material conditions and common ideals of life, form the most sincere admiration for each other in their own hearts and desire for each other to be their lifelong companions.

　　Love to know the four laws

　　Marriage is easy to destroy the passion

　　Love is beautiful and romantic, the honeymoon is the most memorable and treasured, men and women are more than the gods and more pleasure ...... But marriage is the reality of social life, the reason why marriage is difficult to operate is how a man in a woman to fully realise all the different roles: brother, friend, confidant, husband, lover ...... Many women complain about why their husbands are no longer romantic after they get married, mostly because they understand that they need to take on a lot of real responsibilities, and trivial reality often undermines the passion and ideals of love.

　　Marriage itself is a contradiction

　　During the love period is also the two people's period of integration, if both sides feel unsuitable then you can break up, but the essence of marriage lies in the stability. When you join hands in marriage it means that you and your other half are likely to spend the rest of your lives together. Sex is the opposite of marriage, it is dynamic and requires constant stimulation and freshness to be happy, which has given rise to a variety of tricks and techniques.

　　Marriage is vulnerable to a variety of factors

　　"Happy families are all alike; unfortunate families have their own misfortunes." Many insignificant factors can lead to the breakup of the family, while creating a harmonious and happy family is quite difficult, it requires the joint efforts of two people. When the warmth of yesteryear is slowly eroded by daily life, neither party should be whimsical enough to think that this is the way to test how much gold is in the marriage. Marriage is fragile, not too fickle, not too bland, but need to be managed with care in order to win.

　　Marriage also needs dignity

　　The ideal couple relationship is that of lovers, friends and partners in one. The passion of lovers, the fellowship of friends and the consideration of partners are essential, otherwise the foundation of marriage will easily be shaken. Loveless and sexless marriages can lead to the breakup of many families. When one partner is abandoned by the other, the marriage is torn apart, and barely staying together will only lead to wrongdoing; it is better to maintain one's most sacred dignity.

　　Relationship preservation to avoid these habits

　　Emotional cheating and nasty habits

　　The most taboo in love is the word deception, as long as the other party identified you have the suspicion of deception or already know the reality of your deception, you how to explain will not have any effect, even if he can not accept the life without you now, wait until the day you want to open up, he will leave you, because no one will be very easy to forget this kind of damage, trust has been blown apart, part ways just sooner or later. Habits in life will also affect the relationship between the two, such as the boyfriend does not often take a shower or the girlfriend to all the savings to buy cosmetics, seemingly do not affect each other, in fact, will become a poison of love, because the tiny habits can reflect whether you are a home to live in the people.

　　Outside influences

　　When you are in love, you spend all day together and may not realise how your family can affect your relationship. When it gets to the point where you are talking about marriage, friends and family become factors that you have to take into account. For example, the boyfriend and the woman's father to have a common topic, or sit together with nothing to say will be very awkward, and the boyfriend must be and girlfriend's girlfriends to deal with the relationship, too far too close are not good. The most noteworthy is the "third party", some stubborn suitors will gradually dissolve the trust between the two people, will inevitably affect your existing relationship.

　　Different life goals

　　Life goals are an important factor in maintaining a relationship, especially after the passion is over and both people focus on their own careers and don't communicate with each other. If one person is thinking about how to enjoy life and spend their time, while the other is thinking about how to advance their career, this could be a sign that your relationship is not working. Especially the pressure of life will be two people from the love of the paradise pulled back to the "devastation" of the real life, the family trivia may also evolve into an emotional war. The humdrum familiarity of life makes the couple less concerned about each other, and even if the other half goes out on a date, they won't be jealous.

　　Too dependent or independent

　　Whether you're in a relationship or a marriage, there's a fine line between dependence and independence. Being too dependent on the other person can make them feel suffocated, while being too independent can make them feel lonely. Everyone needs space to develop independently, and everyone hates to be deprived of all their freedom by the other person; at the same time, they are afraid of being forgotten. So both of them have to adjust the distance between each other.