Lele, who has just started his first year of elementary school, went home and wanted to look up some language and composition materials on the Internet, and only when he pressed the computer switch did his mother in the kitchen come into the room and scolded Lele, "Why do you play with the computer as soon as you get home and hurry up and do your homework first". No matter how Lele explained that he turned on the computer to do his homework, Lele's mom had already decided that her son was playing with the computer. In the end, Lele had to turn off the computer, but he was very angry with his mom because she always questioned what he was doing. The older Lele got, the more he resented his mom's questioning, and later on, he refused to listen to anything his mom said. The relationship between mother and son was terrible.

　　Parents worry about their children getting into trouble and learning bad things, so they naturally discipline them harshly, and the easiest way to show this in their actions is to question their children. The healthy growth of the child's psychology can not be separated from parental care and support, parental trust is crucial to the child's self-confidence molding. Especially nowadays, children are precocious, so that many parents are caught off guard, and their anxiety is transformed into a strengthening of their control over their children. It can be said that each of us grows up under the demands of our parents, including those that are offensive, but the child in the eyes of their parents will always leave them unsatisfied.

　　Parents' habitual questioning pulls apart the relationship between parents and children; parents complain about their children's disobedience, and children resent their parents' lack of trust. A good parent-child relationship should start when the child is young, from which the child's self-confidence and security come. A child's belief that he or she is loved and cared for by a parent and affirmation of self-worth is often gained from positive parental behavior and praise. Parents who want to raise psychologically healthy children and have a good parent-child relationship should change their habitual questioning, give their children plenty of trust, and when they encounter problems with their children, the first thing they should do is to ask questions to find out the cause of the problem instead of rushing to blame.