Lele, who has just started Grade 1, went home and wanted to look up some language and composition materials on the Internet, but when he pressed the computer switch, his mother in the kitchen came into the room and scolded Lele, "Why do you play with the computer as soon as you get home and hurry up and do your homework first". No matter how Lele explained that he turned on the computer to do his homework, Lele's mother had already decided that her son was playing with the computer. In the end, Lele had to turn off the computer, but he was very angry with his mum because she always questioned what he did in this way. The older Lele got, the more he resented his mum's questioning, and later he refused to listen to anything his mum said. The relationship between mother and son was very bad.

　　Parents are worried that their children will get into trouble and learn to be bad, so they are naturally strict in their discipline, which is most likely to be expressed in their actions by questioning their children. The healthy growth of the child's psychology can not be separated from parental care and support, parental trust is crucial to the child's self-confidence in the mould. Especially nowadays, the early maturity of children catches many parents off guard, and their anxiety transforms into increased control over their children. It can be said that all of us grow up under the demands of our parents, including those that are offensive, but the children in the eyes of their parents will always leave them unsatisfied.

　　Parents' habitual questioning pulls apart the relationship between parents and children; parents complain about their children's disobedience, and children resent their parents' lack of trust. A good parent-child relationship should start when the child is young, from which the child's self-confidence and security come. A child's belief that he or she is loved and cared for by a parent and affirmation of self-worth is often gained from positive parental behaviour and praise. Parents who want to raise psychologically healthy children and have a good parent-child relationship should change their habitual questioning, give their children plenty of trust, and when they encounter problems with their children, the first thing they should do is to ask questions to find out the cause of the problem instead of rushing to blame them.