After years of marriage, you've known each other for at least five years. Whether she's ugly or beautiful, it all looks the same to you. Then one day, your wife walks through the door with a sharper face, a straighter nose, fuller breasts, and a slimmer waist. By conventional standards, she should be more beautiful. But can you handle it?
Peeking: Plastic Surgery Girlfriends Through a Man's Eyes
1.Breast Augmentation Killed Our Intimacy
Mr. He, 35, married for 4 years
Women I'm not involved with can get whatever surgery they want. Doesn't bother me—if it looks good, it pleases my eyes; if it fails, it's not my problem. But my own wife...
After giving birth, my wife's breasts sagged a bit. She insisted on getting breast implants, claiming it was for my "sexual happiness."I couldn't talk her out of it. Now, during intimacy, she constantly whispers nervously, "Be gentle, don't mess it up—it cost over 20,000 yuan..." It kills my mood completely. We haven't been intimate in ages. If this keeps up, our marriage is bound to fall apart...
2.Think About the Complications First
Ming, 30, married for half a year
My wife dislikes her high cheekbones and wants surgery to shave them down. I gasped when I heard this. After researching online, I found cheekbone reduction surgery has an 80% success rate but can cause complications like osteomyelitis and cheekbone necrosis.What if the surgery succeeds? But what if she falls into that unfortunate 20% failure rate?
Before deciding on cosmetic surgery, women must seriously consider the potential complications. Reports show some women developed complications after breast augmentation—swelling, inflammation—ultimately requiring complete breast removal. And years ago, height-increasing surgeries left many beautiful women crippled. Had they known this outcome, would they still have gone through with it?
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3.Acceptable, But Choose the Best
Shen Tong, 36, Married 3 Years
Plastic surgery is actually progress. Through it, women gain confidence and shed self-doubt. If my wife wanted surgery, I'd accept it and pay for it. But the doctor must be compassionate and skilled, the materials top-tier, and the workmanship meticulous.
4. Help in times of need, not just for vanity
Zhu Fei, 32, married for 2 years
Seeking beauty is human nature. After all, cosmetic surgery has its positive aspects. I had a female classmate in college who was very unattractive and couldn't get past the interview stage for any job. Eventually, she spent 80,000 yuan on plastic surgery and now has a great job and family.
Additionally, actors undergo plastic surgery for career reasons, but I don't see the need for others.A colleague took a leave of absence and returned with larger breasts and a sharper jawline. Was this her third or fourth procedure? I can't recall. She was already the most beautiful woman in our company, yet she became addicted to surgery. This revealed a truth to me: the more beautiful a woman is, the more dissatisfied she becomes with herself, the more she seeks perfection, and the more she turns to plastic surgery—isn't this "surgery addiction" a form of psychological disorder?
Artificial Beauty in Men's Eyes
5. Only Minor Adjustments, No Major Changes
Du Lin, 33, married for 1 year
Plastic surgery is a personal choice and pursuit of beauty. If my wife wanted to get it done, I could accept and understand it after discussing it with her beforehand.
However, it should only be minor tweaks, not major alterations. Enhancements based on her natural features—like double eyelid surgery, eyeliner tattoos, eyebrow tattoos, or a facelift when she's older—I can accept. But drastic procedures like breast implants, skin grafts, liposuction, or even removing two ribs to achieve a tiny waist like Marilyn Monroe? Absolutely not.
6. You can be flat-chested, but not brainless
Chen Xiao, 36, married for 4 years
Women just go through all this unnecessary trouble. They're not overweight, yet they go to great lengths to suck something out of their bodies. Their breasts are perfectly small and firm, yet they spend money on implants just to feel satisfied.They fail to grasp one truth: beauty has no bottom line. Even if you transformed yourself into Xi Shi, you'd likely remain dissatisfied.
Look at Jordan—she made her breasts as big as basketballs, throwing off her center of gravity. Or Beckham's wife, who went through breast augmentation then reduction, back and forth—what's the point? Truth is, to men, breast size matters little. What truly counts is intelligence and class.
Online Survey: "Women's Plastic Surgery, Men's Attitudes"
1. Which types of cosmetic procedures for women can you accept?
Dental work……………………………………27.19%
Eyelid surgery (double eyelid, eye bag removal, etc.)……………25.59%
Nose surgery (rhinoplasty, etc.)………………………14.62%
Chemical peels (photofacials, etc.)…………………6.55%
Liposuction and body contouring……………………5.41%
Chin augmentation……………………………………4.49%
Breast surgery (augmentation, reduction, etc.)…………4.27%
Botox injections (and surgical wrinkle removal, etc.)…………3.73%
Gynecological cosmetic surgery……………………………………2.82%
Cheekbone reduction……………………………………2.51%
Buttock augmentation…………………………………………2.36%
Removing two ribs to create a slimmer waist…………………………0.46%
2. Which of the following cosmetic procedures do you find most unacceptable?
Removing two ribs to create a slimmer waist……………………16.55%
Gynecological plastic surgery……………………………………11.93%
Breast Surgery (Augmentation, Reduction, etc.)…………11.73%
Cheekbone Reduction………………………………11.07%
Botox Injections (and Surgical Wrinkle Removal, etc.)…………10.75%
Liposuction for Body Contouring……………………………………9.32%
Buttock Augmentation…………………………………………8.91%
Chin Augmentation…………………………………………6.42%
Chemical Peels (Photofacials, etc.)……………………5.56%
Nose reshaping (rhinoplasty, etc.)………………………………4.09%
Eyelid surgery (double eyelid surgery, eye bag removal, etc.)……………………2.86%
Dental cosmetic procedures…………………………………………0.82%
3. If your wife, whom you live with day and night, wanted to get plastic surgery, could you accept it?
Minor procedures like double eyelid surgery are acceptable, but major surgeries involving bone or muscle work are not 56.24%
No……………………………………………………34.06%
Yes, I could accept it…………………………………………………………9.7%
4. If you discovered your wife had undergone significant cosmetic surgery before meeting you, how would you feel?
Uncomfortable, but I could accept it………………36.24%
Very angry, feel deceived…………26.14%
Absolutely intolerable, want divorce……………………24.95%
Don't care, think it's normal……………………12.67%