Love is beautiful and captivating. Yet this beauty is often fleeting, not enduring. For when people enter love, they typically see only its splendor, forgetting that love, like all emotions, follows its own patterns of change—it is not uniform or static. Time shifts people's feelings about love into a different state, calming the original passion.
In the early days of love, we remember only the warmth and beauty, overlooking the negative aspects. Because at that time, there is only one feeling: love reigns supreme. But in the course of life, many variables arise, and many conflicts occur. So how do we resolve these conflicts?The key is to gradually recall the beautiful moments from when you were dating. Use these cherished memories to ease misunderstandings, finding common ground in those shared experiences. These fond recollections may even rekindle that initial sense of wonder, preventing you from getting bogged down in unpleasant arguments.
Furthermore, gradually amplify the beauty between you. It needn't be confined to reminiscence; transform those past joys into stories you often revisit and savor. Doing so will make everything feel steeped in happiness.
Keeping love fresh isn't an illusion—it's an achievable beauty. Such beauty can only be attained through both partners' joint efforts; relying on one person alone is insufficient.
Love within a relationship is a profoundly sacred emotion. True love is rare and hard to find; once attained, it must be cherished. Cherishing means protecting it well, magnifying its beauty, avoiding petty quarrels, embracing generosity, and becoming a forgiving husband or wife—then life will be utterly fulfilling.