It is often said that if you want to love others, you must first learn to love yourself. Want to know you are the person who will love yourself? The following small test will answer your questions.

　　In each question, if you choose A you can get 1 point, if you choose B you can get 2 points, if you choose C you can get 3 points, and finally check the test result against the total score.

　　1、When I need help and can get it:

　　A I would be happy for other people to help me

　　B I think I should take responsibility myself

　　C I almost always refuse help

　　2. when I am successful:

　　A I am happy from the bottom of my heart every time

　　B A little bit happy

　　C Not really happy

　　3. At the party:

　　A I am always talkative

　　B I don't talk more than others

　　C I am always one of the quiet ones

　　4 I argue with others:

　　A hardly ever B often C too much

　　5、You were late for a party and were nervous, while everyone else at the party was having a good time, how long did it take for you to get into the mood of the party?

　　A Immediately

　　B Very slowly

　　C Generally can't get into the party

　　6、A lady is looking for a mate. One of her suitors drives a car worth $200,000, what do you think this means to the lady on?

　　A It is a reminder that one should be careful with this person

　　B It's no different from him riding a bicycle

　　C This is a good opportunity

　　7、You have just jogged for 20 minutes. How did you feel?

　　A Very good B Very tired C Very comfortable

　　8, A child wants to complete a difficult task (such as trying to move a very heavy object), and when this child despairs of his or her task, you would first:

　　A encourage him B comfort him

　　C tell him that he should estimate his strength correctly

　　9、When I am very impatient:

　　A I won't hurt anyone else by it

　　B I will hurt other people

　　C Others will be surprised that I am so aggressive

　　10 I help other people:

　　A Only when it makes sense to do so

　　B Only when others ask me to

　　C Even if they don't ask for my help at all

　　11, I treat others:

　　A always spontaneously friendly

　　B Always keep a distance at first

　　C Always too harsh so that others feel hurt by it

　　12. I feel that those who are always friendly to me:

　　A are very nice B are a bit suspicious C make me feel bored

　　Test results:

　　20 points or less:

　　Knowing how to love yourself in the proper way, you do those things that are good for you, but don't harm others by doing so. Others will be happy and satisfied with the way you handle things.

　　20 to 30 points:

　　You don't value yourself enough. You are too nice, and you usually think, "Instead of asking for help, I'll do it myself." This behaviour makes people think you're "easy to get rid of". You're practical for those around you because you don't cause trouble. But you're at a disadvantage.

　　30 points or more:

　　You are always at odds with yourself. You always revolve around others, doing things to please others in the hope of making them happy. But you get very little in return for this. Please try to pay more attention to your own interests and take some measures and means for your own benefit.