Using one thing to love another, who has not had such a psychological mechanism? Even a comb, used for a long time, will have feelings, and even rely on it, broken can not throw. Therefore, the highest state of love, not only appreciate, but also use, boldly use, trust.

　　Interviewed a loving couple, the young wife has a mild fear of cars, so do not dare to learn to drive, but like to drive the man that drive the dashing and sexy, such as sitting in the passenger seat, left to look at the side of their own man's face, angular, very focused and calm, very secure; right to look out the window scenery, fuzzy, changing, rich ......

　　She smiled and confessed that she initially looked at her current husband because she liked the way he drove handsomely and coolly.

　　Her man, sitting on the same sofa, listening, the same smile, nodding frequently, does not feel that such a love statement, love motivation is not sufficient, not decent enough, not official enough, not romantic enough.

　　"I'm useful to her, and that's the grandest compliment of all!" He couldn't resist summing it up this way, and then swept his wife over to him, who added co-operatively, "My husband is the best carter I've ever had!"

　　A lover likes to feel that you need him; otherwise, love as a pendulum is unfulfilled. The colder you treat the person you love, the more likely you are to keep love away. How good love is, use it to know it, and if the person you love can't be depended on, what's left in the world to hold on to?

　　Many couples end up as strangers, is because of the "basic use", love is like a lock, do not use, over time, even if the original key, can not be opened.