People often say: To love others, you must first learn to love yourself. Want to know if you're someone who cherishes yourself? This short quiz will answer your question.
For each question, choose A for 1 point, B for 2 points, or C for 3 points. Compare your total score to see your results.
1. When I need help and can receive it:
A I'm very willing to accept others' help
B I believe I should take responsibility myself
C I almost always refuse help
2. When I achieve success:
A I feel genuinely happy every time
B I feel a little happy
C I'm actually not very happy
3. At gatherings:
A I'm always very talkative
B I don't talk more than others
C I'm usually the quiet type
4. I argue with others:
A Rarely B Often C Too often
5.You arrive late to a party feeling nervous, while everyone else is having fun. How long does it take you to get into the party mood?
A Immediately
B Slowly
C Usually can't get into the party mood
6. A woman is looking for a partner.One of her suitors drives a car worth 200,000 yuan. What do you think this means for her?
A It's a warning to be cautious around this person
B It's no different than if he rode a bicycle
C It's a great opportunity
7. You just finished a 20-minute jog.How do you feel?
A Great
B Tired
C Relaxed
8. A child is attempting a difficult task (like moving a heavy object). When the child feels hopeless about the task, you would first:
A Encourage them
B Comfort them
C Tell them to properly gauge their strength
9. When I feel impatient:
A I won't hurt others because of it
B I will hurt others
C Others will be surprised by my aggressiveness
10. I help others:
A Only when it makes sense to do so
B Only when others ask me to
C Even if they haven't asked for my help at all
11.Toward others:
A I'm always spontaneously friendly
B I initially keep a certain distance
C I'm often too harsh, causing others to feel hurt
12. I feel that people who are always friendly toward me:
A Are very kind
B Are somewhat suspicious
C Bore me
Test Results:
Below 20 points:
You know how to love yourself appropriately. You do what benefits you without harming others. People find joy and satisfaction in how you handle things.
20–30 points:
You don't value yourself enough. You're too kind-hearted, often thinking, "I'd rather do it myself than ask for help." This makes others see you as "easy to dismiss."To those around you, you're practical because you never cause trouble. Yet you end up short-changing yourself.
Above 30 points:
You constantly put yourself down. You revolve around others, centering your actions on pleasing them in hopes of satisfying them. Yet you receive little in return. Try focusing more on your own interests and take steps to protect them.