Men and women have fundamentally different perspectives on relationship development: men tend to grow more complacent over time, while women become increasingly passionate. Therefore, when pursuing a woman you admire, be mindful of these five major pitfalls.
Getting too personal too soon, rushing to express your feelings
As a new acquaintance, no girl wants to hear you say, "I want to have several kids." This only makes her think you're just trying to sleep with her.
Being fake and boastful, bragging about yourself nonstop
Boastful men often brag endlessly about themselves—"I'm so awesome," "So-and-so is my best buddy."These remarks won't make her think you're impressive—they'll just make you seem tacky.
Lacking opinions and always saying "Whatever you want"
"What do you want to eat?" "Whatever you want." "Where do you want to go?" "Whatever you want." These are among the most hated phrases girls hear, so when pursuing someone, you should express your own ideas at the right moments.
Faking kindness to craft a tragic "good guy" image
"Once, I deeply loved a woman, but she cheated on me and left..." Avoid using such stories to pick up girls. Have you noticed that truly exceptional women never fall for "good" guys?
Money-obsessed? You're just after her wallet
Blatantly using money to chase girls won't win their favor, especially early on. It makes them think you're looking for a prostitute, not a girlfriend. Of course, this excludes those gold-diggers who love money more than anything!