First, the primary lesson for men in 2012 when pursuing women is to obtain her phone number and contact details. This signals your interest to her, after which you should send a text message inviting her out for a chat. If she agrees, put some thought into the arrangement—choose a quiet bar rather than a restaurant for the first meeting.
Second, after the date, don't forget to send a text expressing how much you enjoyed her company and hope to see her again. This shows you care. You can also send funny texts, but avoid dirty jokes.
Also, girls these days tend to be a bit vain, so you can send messages like: "My jaw dropped seeing how gorgeous you looked today!" or "You dressed so uniquely today—you looked adorable!"
Also, once you've gotten to know each other a bit, it's time to show off your charm. Try texts like these:
1. Guess what I'm doing right now? Here are five options: A. Thinking of you; B. Missing you; C. Missing you badly; D. Can't stop thinking about you; E. All of the above.
2. If there's a next life, let's be a pair of little mice—loving each other clumsily, living simply, snuggling purely, and staying together foolishly.
3. Tomorrow's low is 1°C, high is 10°C. XX asked me to tell you: caring about the weather means caring about you. Don't forget to bundle up.
4. Busy? No worries. I just wanted to let you know without disturbing you—I'm thinking of you. I hope when you receive this text, a smile touches your lips, letting your friends know you're happy.
Truth is, there are countless ways to pursue a girl. May the methods above offer some guidance to guys. Here's hoping you'll soon win over the girl you like, enjoy a happy life, and savor the sweetness of love.