Saying one thing and doing another, approaching with ulterior motives, moving so fast it's unbearable—someone who genuinely likes you will tread carefully and deliberate thoughtfully. Forcing you to cut ties with your opposite-sex friends while acting as a close confidant to other girls themselves, claiming their friendships are pure—such people are unreliable.
1. They're nice to you, but also nice to ten other girls in their contact list.
2. Says one thing, does another—makes promises without a second thought but never follows through.
3. Approaches you with ulterior motives, moving so fast it's unbearable. Someone who genuinely likes you would tread carefully and think things through.
4. Asks for your number and confesses on the first meeting. If you don't agree, they immediately cut off contact and pursue someone else.
5. If you reply slowly, he'll ignore you all afternoon, claiming it's to make you feel what it's like.
6. He criticizes your clothing choices, offers "advice" on your hairstyle, and comments on your height and weight.
7. They love digging into my past life and romantic history, yet forbid me from touching their phone.
8. They pressure you to cut ties with your opposite-sex friends while acting as a "male best friend" to other girls everywhere, claiming their friendships are pure.
9. They refuse to publicly post about you on social media, won't introduce you to their friends, and make you feel completely invisible in their life.
10. When I'm exhausted at night, they selfishly demand I stay up with them.
11. On holidays or meaningful anniversaries, they refuse to splurge, claiming it's a waste of money.
12. If three or more of these apply, they're only flirting to sleep with you.