What's Hidden Isn't Marriage, It's Self-Interest
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Whether it's Andy Lau's secret marriage or Ma Lin's marital scandal, what they concealed wasn't their marriages—it was their interests. Behind the decision to marry or not lies a complex web of vested interests.Several years ago, IBM launched a voice recognition software in China. Voice input refers to dictating speech that the computer transcribes into text. To adapt the software to your speech patterns and accent, you first had to read aloud over 200 phrases into a microphone. If memory serves, the first row of the phrase list was: house, car, money, child, seat.In today's society, I find myself both delighted by the endless stream of novel phenomena and yet convinced that the vast majority of Chinese people's actions can be explained by just those five words—or even the four characters "promotion and wealth." Take the novel phenomenon of "secret marriages," for instance.Recently, Andy Lau's secret marriage scandal came to light. Many mainland fans couldn't understand why he'd married years ago yet dared not announce it publicly. They might think mainland actors marry multiple times without it affecting their careers at all.What these fans didn't realize is that Hong Kong's entertainment industry is rife with vested interests. Whether to marry—or more accurately, whether to announce a marriage—isn't always the actor's decision. Everything hinges on preserving the actor's image.In this sense, Andy Lau's concealed marriage shares the same essence as the earlier (or perhaps "later") "Very Silly, Very Naive" incident: what they hid wasn't marriage itself, but rather the interests at stake.The recent uproar over table tennis player Ma Lin's marriage scandal has been dubbed the "Andy Lau of the sports world" by media. Based on disclosed details, the vested interests involved appear more direct. Moreover, the attitudes of both parties readily reveal underlying power dynamics: Ma Lin, being highly public, sought discretion; his less-known partner has consciously or unconsciously leveraged the relationship's on-again, off-again nature.There's another significant, unseen stakeholder here: the media. A quick online search reveals that Ma Lin hasn't truly concealed anything. It's easy to find TV shows where he flaunted their relationship, magazine interviews, and intimate photos of the couple—proof that Ma Lin differs from Andy Lau. Yet the media ignores this, preferring to amplify nonsense like "Ma Lin is so naive, he didn't realize getting a marriage certificate counts as marriage."Frankly, deep down, I've always secretly yearned to have something to hide myself—it feels rather theatrical. After watching Arnold Schwarzenegger's True Lies, I often fantasized about juggling multiple identities or having a secret persona. Or like in Mr. & Mrs. Smith, where my wife and I belonged to opposing factions, constantly plotting to eliminate each other.In True Lies, a supporting character impersonates a secret agent and successfully seduces Harry's (Arnie's) wife. Later, the fake agent explains that American housewives find their lives so dull they crave excitement, making them easy prey for his persona.Here, I'd like to remind Chinese screenwriters: if you're crafting a Chinese version of True Lies, avoid using "thrill" to lure Chinese housewives—it doesn't quite fit our national context. Instead, I suggest going straight for houses, cars, and cash. Though the ending might not involve secret marriages; it could simply lead to divorce. (Zhang Jiehai, renowned psychologist)
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