How to approach salary concerns and emotional well-being
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How to earn a salary beyond expectations—and achieve a mindset beyond salary? The secret lies in adopting a supplier mindset.
If inner visions could be painted, the images employees, bosses, and companies hold of each other would likely be worlds apart. Everyone imagines the other as a beauty, only to discover they don't even measure up to a steamed bun. Thus, imagination is naive and foolish, while reality is doubly frustrating.In truth, workplace relationships are fundamentally transactional—labor, collaboration, and compensation. This dynamic is inherently healthy and harmless, yet our preconceived notions render it cold and cruel.Why do we work hard yet receive insufficient pay? Why do we drag ourselves to work each day without enthusiasm? Here, I believe we can offer an answer to these age-old questions: when we focus excessively on ourselves, we forget the commodity we are selling. Commodity? Precisely—your labor is your commodity.
A journalist's product is the articles they write; a chef's product is the dishes they prepare; a janitor's product is the floors they sweep. We offer our product to companies willing to purchase it in exchange for compensation. The better our product, the higher its value. We aren't employed by that company; we are collaborating with it.
Break free from the mindset of employment and replace it with a more proactive one: the supplier mindset. It restores your autonomy. Even if you must clock in daily, you can work for yourself, knowing you go there to complete the product—or even the work of art—you sell. One party provides services or sells goods, while the other pays for them. This is supply and demand.There's no need for inferiority or complacency based on status—different positions merely indicate different products being sold.
As long as your product has market demand, salary increases are inevitable. Yet more valuable than a good salary is the radiant confidence that emanates from within when one excels. Because you take pride in your work, transforming an ordinary job into something exceptional—that is the ultimate honor.
No pay, why can't we earn more?
The linchpin of supplier relationships is compensation. To get paid, remember four words: meet the need. The more you satisfy their requirements, the higher your labor's value becomes. Instead of complaining about perceived unfairness, examine whether your output delivers products that meet the company's specifications. In the workplace, there's no such thing as unpaid toil, nor is there charity.
How do you make your product more valuable? It depends on how you work. Often, we don't see the connection between our tasks and ourselves. That's because the deadening atmosphere of work, devoid of any sense of accomplishment, makes us feel like we're merely selling our labor. This causes us to work with our hearts elsewhere. Focusing on the task at hand is a skill we're losing.
First, connect your work to yourself. It represents you to some degree—it's where you place your talent and character. Whether you create a premium brand or a generic one, a luxury item or a knockoff, reveals whether you're exceptional or mediocre. The quality of your product often depends not on innate talent, but on how much heart you pour into it.Human energy is finite. If you squander it on futile pursuits—like pointless complaining or endless rumination—the quality of your product inevitably suffers as your focus shifts.
Once you meet your partner's needs, your next step is to ensure your product holds universal value—meaning it aligns with the broader demands of the entire industry.It's simple: if your product serves only one company, pricing power lies in their hands. But if your capabilities enable you to create something the entire industry needs, you'll attract multiple suitors, hold several offers, apply pressure to your partners, and gain confidence in yourself. Once you've mastered these steps, you'll discover that true growth and reward come from confronting the very things you once avoided.You might have viewed work as a necessity, a byproduct of personal life. But when you first realize your product is your vessel—bearing your name—your purpose shifts. Work ceases to be merely "making ends meet" and becomes crafting something better. Like nurturing a plant, you strive for its beauty and longevity.Better work represents a better version of yourself. Those you collaborate with will increasingly depend on you, giving you greater leverage in negotiations. Feeling down? Why does work make us so unhappy? During the recent European Cup, Mario Balotelli became the world's favorite football enigma. His expressionless, unattractive face left everyone guessing what thoughts swirled beneath.In Italy's match against Germany, he scored two goals single-handedly. After each strike, he maintained his stoic expression. When reporters asked why he didn't celebrate while his teammates rejoiced, he replied, "I'm a striker. A striker's job is to score goals. What's there to celebrate?"
Whether Balotelli's brain works differently from ours, he articulated a fundamental truth often overlooked in our careers: fulfill your role, earn your reward. Why dwell on anything else?
Bad moods always stem from fixating on things that don't matter.Gossip overheard at work, colleagues' indifference, a superior's lack of understanding—if you're sensitive, these little things can ruin your mood.
Many people are unhappy because they've relinquished control—hoping someone will treat them better, or that a certain opportunity will arise. But no one knows the world's code; there's no way to predict if these unknowns will materialize. That's why so many turn to gaming or pets—they offer relative control, trading consumption for a sense of security.
But who should we blame for workplace unhappiness? Korea's Zen Master Jikwang offers a profoundly Zen-like perspective: "The workplace is neither heaven nor hell—it's simply a place of work. Yet for those striving to enter, it becomes heaven; for those seeking to escape, it becomes hell."
Indeed, as he says, the workplace itself is simple, objective, and neutral. Any environment shares this trait—it takes on the flavor of the people within it. How we perceive it in our hearts is how it truly is. We grow accustomed to focusing on social dynamics and external trappings, becoming narrow-minded and worldly, vacillating between navigating office politics and chasing promotions.
When we've seen too much of the Machiavellian politics in the workplace and demonized it in our minds, everything seems exaggerated and hollow, turning the workplace into a cesspool. That's why we say: Come back, come back. Let's cool down our burning ambitions first. To regain control of our emotions, we should learn from Ba Shen: shift our focus from people back to things, back to principles, back to rules.
What are the rules of the workplace? They boil down to two essentials—neither about climbing the ladder nor fostering connections. The two pillars you must uphold are the quality of your product and the value it delivers to the buyer. Craft your goods well, find a worthy buyer, and set a fair price—that's the ideal workplace state.
Step back from the social arena. A technical professional needn't agonize over interpersonal awkwardness. Earning through skill and labor is the natural order of the workplace—it's fundamentally not a social club. Ultimately, you alone determine your achievements.
Unlike gaming or pet-raising, work grants you genuine value.When you feel passionate about the products you create, everything else fades into the background, and you won't feel restless. A major benefit of focusing on work is the peace of mind it brings. A good job gives you a sense of stability. You willingly invest your energy and time into it, entering a state of flow—an experience money can't buy. That's what good mood is all about.
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