In the process of love, many people complain, why is it always the woman who is hurt, there are also many women think this way: men are particularly ruthless. In fact, men are just more practical, will not live in the illusion, know that there are many more important things than love in real life.

　　The most important thing is that you will not be able to get the best out of it.

　　1, love is not all of life

　　For women, love is life, oxygen, life, therefore, the woman's love is always sensational, to get the world to know, most women will also pour all their feelings. But men can be different, even in the heat of love, they will have the ability to ruthless six parents, dedicated to the things in front of them.

　　Men are so heartless, you might think, and even more so sometimes you're angry at him for postponing your date again because of something else. In fact, they are just more practical, know that in real life there are many more important things than love, such as work, such as money, and then his brothers ......

　　Keep in mind: he has no contempt for your existence at all.

　　2. Keep silent in moderation

　　There are a lot of women are prone to commit a fault, is regardless of each other's friendship, like to ramble on about the size of the life of the number of things, regardless of whether the other party is not interested in, a child brain said a few hours.

　　Yes, women like and good at sharing secrets with others, but everything regardless of the size, right or wrong, in the half-baked when he pushed the heart, reveal secrets can only make you in the eyes of men become boring, trivial and no mystery, the two relationship drew to a close.

　　In fact, more men love to show off their own benefits to women, then just listen. Because he just want you to "worship" him, remember to give him a sure look from time to time. ......

　　3, see the problem more directly

　　Men and women dating, understand each other is definitely the pursuit of both sexes, just men and women to understand the focus of the opposite. Women want to know why he called in the evening, rather than at noon? Why did he invite me to the cinema? Is there a special reason for saying that?

　　As opposed to women's borderline speculation, men want to know the facts; how old are you, are you single? Are you free on Saturday night? Do you want to see me? Do you love me? Many women unfairly call a man's directness and bluntness in stating his opinion cold. In fact, men see things more like a car on the road, their usual way of thinking is from A to B, straight line and rarely off track.

　　If a man invites you to watch a film, don't think about any symbolism it implies at the beginning, just think about why he invites you to watch it instead of inviting someone else. Nine times out of ten, it's because he loves you and likes you, that's all.

　　4, private love affairs not with friends to say

　　Women in addition to sometimes wishful thinking and the first meeting of the man to share the heart, there are some fatal faults, that is, and sisters are too open and honest, almost to the point of nothing to talk about, from the lover's childhood nickname, to the kissing skills, and even ...... are each other the topic of small talk.

　　But women have thought about it, and friends to share these intimate love affairs, very likely in your relationship with him to cast a shadow. On the one hand, it will make him feel that his privacy for people to know, everything without concealment, very uncomfortable, is a kind of betrayal and betrayal. In addition, you may not care so much about the original thing, but because of the friend said: "Yes, he is really hard to please" and feel worse. You may feel worse when you hear a friend say, "Yes, he's really hard to please." You may feel even less determined to solve the problem because your friend reassures you that you shouldn't tolerate the problem.

　　5. Lost love doesn't hurt

　　This is not to say that the country is cold-blooded and heartless, and can not feel the seven feelings and six desires. Women will be sad to death when they fall out of love, will cry to the dark; the realm of some women will be a few days of water and rice do not touch. And in men less often happen because of love lost do not eat, drink and indulge in sentimental things.

　　Part of the reason why men are so open-minded should be attributed to the general biological behavioural response. According to experts, "Psychologically, men are more likely than women to have the mental chemistry to overcome pain." In addition to the psychological differences, men of course recover more quickly on the road to falling out of love. They know that they will eventually fall in love again, and the sky is the limit, not to mention that the most practical way to heal is to fall in love with another person as soon as possible.

　　6, when the opportunity to cut the thread of love

　　The meaning of this sentence is not "men are afraid of commitment", the fact is that "men are afraid to make a commitment to the dialogue is not their destiny of the woman" men in a stable relationship before, always ask themselves: she meet my needs? How does she fit sexually? Financially, is she self-sufficient?

　　If the answer to all the questions are negative, he will not waste time and you hard to play soft foam, in all probability he will beat the drum, continue to move forward on the road of love in search of a good person. Never like a woman, clearly see each other's inappropriate, or drilling the bull's eye, and want to transform each other. Ultimately, the song is scattered people difficult to round, or "long pain is better than short pain" ah!

　　The sweet ten tips to keep love fresh

　　The first style: often gently touch. Simple touch can make people have a warm, comfortable feeling, caress each other's back effect magic, especially for women.

　　Second: Share secrets. Write down what you are thinking on a piece of paper and spend a few minutes communicating your thoughts to the other person in a way other than words and let them guess.

　　Style 3: Be all in. People who are double-minded themselves tend to be suspicious of their partner's behaviour as well and lack trust, which can be fatal to the relationship in the long run.

　　Style 4: Imitate the other person. People are more likely to be in a relationship with someone who is similar to them - whether in terms of intelligence, background or personal charm - and sometimes simply imitating the other person can enhance the relationship. Exercise method: two people close to stand or sit down, move their hands and feet freely, but at the same time to imitate each other's movements, so that both people feel free and the two sides are the same.

　　Fifth style: prepare some jokes. In long-lasting and happy relationships, loving couples always make each other laugh. There are also studies that show that women are more likely to gravitate towards a male partner who can make them laugh.

　　Style 6: Do things together that you haven't done before. People's memories are categorised and stored, if you are the first person to think of each type of memory in each other, then it will really do "I have you, you have me".

　　Seventh: relax mental defences. Relaxation of the guard will help the cultivation of feelings, but with alcohol paralysis is not a good way. Can two people gently embrace together, try to feel each other's breathing, and gradually make their own breathing synchronised with it. After a few minutes, the two will feel as one.

　　The eighth style: appropriate to accommodate each other. In order to each other deliberately do some good changes, such as quit smoking, quit drinking, etc., will make your status soar.

　　Style 9: small danger to stimulate the "heart" feeling. The physical and mental reactions of people engaged in certain intense or adventurous activities are very similar to the "electric" feeling of being in love. In addition to play a roller coaster, see a thriller and other methods, Epstein also teaches a small game: the two alternately fall backwards, by the other behind the catch.

　　Style 10: Get a little closer. Proximity helps people feel good about each other. If two people consciously approach each other and deliberately let each other into their personal space, soon they will become close to each other. Exercise method: two people stand about 1 metre apart, then every 10 seconds to bring the distance a little closer, until both sides are about to touch.