Mom asked Han: "When you grow up, do you want to be the boss, telling others what to do, or work for someone else and take orders?" The kid replied: "I want to be a scientist. Why would I need a boss or work for someone else?" I said, "Of course you would, because research teams have leaders and specialists." Han said: "I just want to do my own research." I was stunned. "But you need teamwork too,Nowadays, everything requires teamwork. Going solo yields poor results." The little rascal retorted, "I just want to be a scientist researching what I love. I don't want others telling me what to do, nor do I want to tell others what to do."
I pressed further, "Then would you rather be first or last?" Han declared, "I want to be second." Huh, who knew? Turns out this kid is content with mediocrity. I asked why.He answered, "I don't want to be first because I don't want to boss others around. That way, I'll have plenty of time to do my own thing."
Han's calm acceptance of being second place—I think if he becomes a researcher someday, it might suit him well, but other careers might not be ideal. I won't judge whether this personality is good or bad, but I do feel that personalities are often hard to change. I just hope the little guy finds a lifestyle that suits him and lives happily.