Psychological Quiz: How Bad Is Your Temper?
After an argument, do you immediately apologize, stubbornly hold your ground, or even say hurtful things? Take this test to see how bad your temper is.
Question: It suddenly starts raining, and all the umbrellas at home are broken. The rain gets heavier, and you have no other choice. Which one would you pick?
A.An umbrella with a large hole.
B. An umbrella with a small hole.
C. An umbrella with a bent handle.
D. An umbrella with a straight but very short handle.
Check Your Results
If you chose A:
Obviously, an umbrella with a large hole will leave you soaked.But you clearly don't mind, implying a subconscious message of "apologizing with your head bowed is acceptable." After an argument, you're likely the one to admit fault first, seeking reconciliation. While this shows remarkable magnanimity, beware—such temperament can easily embolden the other person! People like this have a distinctly Western flair and are generally easy to get along with.When you argue, it might even be a passionate French-style version!
People who chose B:
An umbrella with a few small holes means you won't get completely soaked. You'll apologize to the other person without compromising yourself. But in reality, you might let things cool down for a long time before finally saying, "I was also at fault back then." People like this actually have a soft heart.You rarely put others in an awkward position or force yourself to do the impossible. Your arguments might carry a hint of Japanese subtlety. Yet when this "slow-to-boil" temperament finally erupts, it's likely over something truly serious!
If you chose C:
A bent umbrella handle is quite distinctive. Truthfully, you're incredibly stubborn! Even if an argument stems from your own mistake, you'd never willingly admit it!You might even intentionally or unintentionally shift blame onto others. Over time, your refusal to admit mistakes means anyone who falls for you will either walk away or need considerable courage and grace to stay. People like this lack real principles! They might even be fence-sitters on many issues—in their eyes, a stable, happy life matters more than any principle.Right and wrong? Just empty words!
If you chose D:
A short handle suggests you're the forgetful type. Arguments are arguments—once they're over, they're forgotten! Even if your partner said something hurtful, you might wake up the next day feeling fine, ready to resume life with a smile.Over time, the other person might feel guilty toward you, perhaps even ashamed. So you're the type who's great at arguing and just as quick to make up! People like this seem to live under the Mediterranean sun! They understand life's joy lies in: one explosive outburst, lasting happiness. They'll be ruthless during arguments too, because venting pain shouldn't hold back. You could say they're people who love fiercely and hate fiercely!